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You Can't Pour From an Empty Cup

Replenish Yourself First!

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Dr. Pamela Purser
Dec 05, 2024
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This is the story of a caregiver's journey to self-healing.

"Caring for others begins with caring for yourself—pour love inward, and watch it flow outward." – Lao Tzu, Ancient Philosopher.

Mary, Joyce, and Linda settled into plush chairs at "Ethereal Brews," an elegant tea shop perched on the city's edge. The ambiance exuded calm—a soft glow from lanterns, delicate porcelain teapots, and the rich, earthy aroma of Pu-erh tea wafting through the air. It was their first outing together in weeks, a rare escape from their demanding caregiver roles.

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Mary gazed into her steaming cup. "Some days, I feel like I'm pouring from an empty cup," she said softly, her words blending with the hum of soft piano music.

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